Friday, May 2, 2014

Must Keep Mom On Her Toes

Avery

“aten” = eaten (we are still working on tenses)

His appetite is noticeably increasing, and often asks for more food.  He is still becoming less picky in what he eats.

Still has a rich, wild imagination.  This plays into his dreams causing nightmares, such as ninjas coming after him.

Still picks dandelions from the back yard for his mom.

“I ate more than Daddy for supper.  That means I DEFEATED him!!!”

Earned his yellow belt in Taekwondo and was very proud of himself.

(Avery speaking of Aileen) “Sometimes she’s my hero.  Sometimes she’s my friend.  Sometimes she’s my ememy.”

Although I can now barely lift him, he still insists that I pick him up and toss him on his bed each night.  At age 6, he is over half my height.

Still gives his mom the famous, overly dramatic “kiss-hug” each night.


Aileen

While taking bites out of apple slices, she stopped, looked down at the piece, and then named it “cow”.  Then, proceeded to name another piece “chicken”.

Enjoys helping.  She likes to bring her dirty plate, cup and silverware to the sink after eating by herself.

It bothers her if she finds “trash”, like a small piece of fuzz on the carpet, and has a strong need to immediately throw it away all by herself.

She will put herself into “time out” if we have to correct her behavior.

She can now reach door knobs and open doors on her own (as well as lock/unlock them).

Her desire to imitate others, most notably mom, is strong right now.  For example, if I am talking on the phone, she will run to grab her toy phone.  Similarly, if I am cooking in the kitchen, she uses her toy kitchen and dishes in the adjoining room.

Her tender heart is obvious when she runs to bring Avery a “blankie” if he is crying or upset to comfort him.  She seeks out her blankie for comfort and assumes others need the same.

Very plainly responds “Yes”, or “Of course” when asked a question.

Loves to eat red and yellow peppers, corn and even salad leaves – just as long as they are fresh, cold and crunchy.

Asked if the city courthouse was a “castle?”.

Many others who have regular contact with Aileen have mentioned how she is becoming a lot more animated and talkative.  So far, her personality continues to open up as she grows.

Avery made Aileen a “Chica” puppet based off of a Saturday morning TV show they enjoy together.  Aileen really likes it and has taken it with her, like a stuffed animal companion, in the van when we drop Avery off at school.  Avery is flattered that Aileen likes the gift he made her so much.


The library is a regular stop for Aileen and me each week.  She delights in the bright, colorful decorations that they put up.  It is a precious thing to see children notice, wonder at and take joy in small things such as bright decorations, flowers in pots near the door and friendly smiles from library staff.  She is a handful, however – hiding behind bookshelves and squealing “pee ka boo!”, running away and laughing at her mom trying to quietly catch her in between book aisles, etc…  She playfully teases while other patrons grin and make light-hearted comments such as “must keep her mom on her toes”.